If more self-care worked, it would've worked by now. In this episode, I share my own burnout story and introduce Claire—a patient whose chronic fatigue reveals a missing piece in how we understand stress. Through the research on learned helplessness and the metaphor of the elephant tied to a stick, this episode uncovers why so many of us feel stuck despite trying everything.
→ Get the full episode breakdown at Biology of Trauma® Podcast - Episode 153: The Biology of Burnout: Why Pushing Through Stops Working
In this episode you'll learn:
[00:50] The Energizer Bunny Who Couldn't Push Anymore: Claire's story of chronic fatigue and missing her daughter's track meets
[03:39] Why Self-Care Fails: The backwards truth about stress that keeps us stuck on the hamster wheel
[05:13] Skill #1 — Generate a Good Stress Response: Why wimpy stress responses lead to burnout and trauma biology
[06:36] Skill #2 — Complete and Reset: The exhale our bodies never learned to do
[07:35] The Critical Line of Overwhelm: What happens when stress builds without reset
[13:46] Learned Helplessness Research: The study on dogs that changed everything about understanding why we stay stuck
[19:51] The Elephant Tied to a Stick: How early experiences program us to believe we cannot escape
[11:19] The Voice Underneath: Recognizing the quiet belief that "other people can have good lives, but not me"
[25:31] What Comes Next: Preview of how the researchers helped the dogs get unstuck
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Episode 31: Am I Tired, Or Is This Trauma? The Roots Of Fatigue with Dr. Evan Hirsch
Episode 122: Shutdown Before Stress: The Misstep in Trauma Healing That Often Gets Missed
