The Goddess is Enough 💕

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Hello, goddesses.

In today's episode, we are going to talk about The Goddess is Enough.

The reason behind this episode is that the other day I had this beautiful young client, and she was saying to me, I have had a couple of dates with this guy, and it's all fizzled out now.

It's really strange for me that I met a guy that meets all my criteria, and this guy did; he was educated, from the right background, right age, and right everything.

What did I do wrong Penny?

This kind of consultation breaks my heart because here I had a girl who was doing everything right, super beautiful, young, smart, educated, she had it all, and yet she was coming to me asking me what if I had spoken less, what if I wore a different dress, what if I didn't tell him about my education.

This beautiful Goddess did everything right.

And yes, you can speak less on dates, you can wear a shorter skirt, and more cleavage, downgrade your education, and do the rules to get the guy, but these things are not going to work out because you're not doing them for yourself, because you love yourself.

You're doing them to get the guy.

You want to speak less, yes, but not to get the guy. You want to speak less because that's what a confident secure person does.

A person who speaks less is a person that feels really good about themselves.

So you do want to speak less on dates, not because you're dumbing yourself down.

The strategy here is:

"I'm going to become more confident,

I'm going to love myself more,

I'm going to become more secure,

I'm going to boost my self-esteem."

And all of these things will result in you going on dates and not being in the energy of having to prove yourself.

It's not about what you do or don't do; it's about how you feel about yourself.

You have to flip the switch, and you want to come from the energy that says: