In this episode our listener question is all about how to get your husband to notice dust when he seems immune to dust. In other words... how to get him to get involved in the unpaid labour at home. We talk bout how we tackle the invisible labour and ingrained gender roles in our household, as well as sharing practical steps for dividing tasks, overcoming traditional expectations, and breaking down the mental load. This episode covers writing down tasks, having open conversations, and the importance of mutual respect. We also reflect on personal experiences, the impact of modeling behavior for our kids, and the role that positive feedback plays in making lasting changes. Whether you're managing household chores or parenting duties, this episode offers helpful insights for creating a more balanced and collaborative home life.