In this family-centric episode of 'Between Over and Next,' Holli and Robert are joined by their children, Lindsey and Alex. From career choices to relationships, the family has a heartfelt conversation discussing the lessons they've learned and the support they've received from each other. With a focus on love, trust, and respect, this episode explores the unique bond between parents and children and the importance of fostering meaningful relationships.
As Holli and Robert reflect on their roles as parents, they underscore the importance of imparting resilience, love, and a drive to pursue one's passions. Lindsey discusses her gratifying experience as an educator, harnessing her artistic skills to ignite a similar fire in her students. Alex shares his multifaceted career trajectory, emphasizing the significance of forming genuine connections and taking calculated risks. Together, they piece a narrative that celebrates each family member's individuality while acknowledging the shared value of their collective experiences.
Tune in as they delve deep into the personal stories of family dynamics, career choices, and the unique challenges of parenting. It's an exploration of the growing pains and triumphs that bridge the generational divide and evidence of the profound influence parents have on their offspring's journey through life.
This episode promises not only to resonate with parents and their adult children but offer timeless insights to every listener.
00:00 Introduction to the podcast and the importance of the parent-child relationship
04:56 Reflecting on the experience of being parents
08:30 Lindsey's description of her parents as her biggest support system
09:48 Alex's description of his parents as driven, supportive, and innovative
11:33 Discussing important lessons learned in their 20s
11:33 Reflection on The 21st Century Bride event
11:57 Exploring the unknown and embracing change
12:07 Introduction to the couple's career paths and strengths
12:50 Learning to navigate relationships and career choices
13:52 The importance of resilience and adaptability
13:53 Alex's lesson learned on the importance of relationships
14:41 The significance of working with people you like
14:43 Finding a balance between work and personal life
15:26 Alex's journey from high school to college and various jobs
15:52 Embracing personal growth and self-discovery
17:08 Building strong foundations for the future
17:40 Alex's experience during the Covid pandemic
18:15 The importance of communication and trust in relationships
19:21 Embracing new experiences and stepping out of comfort zones
19:48 Alex starting his digital marketing agency
20:26 The value of lifelong learning and continuous growth
20:45 Lindsey's career path as an art teacher
21:32 Nurturing and maintaining meaningful friendships
22:21 Lessons learned as an art teacher
22:40 The role of gratitude and positivity in life
22:59 Lindsey's marriage and relationship with her husband
22:59 Meeting Lindsey's husband during her job search
23:47 Embracing challenges and learning from failures
24:12 Alex's happiness and optimism
24:52 The importance of self-care and mental well-being
25:00 Love for family and friends
26:03 Thoughts on the journey through the 20s
26:21 Lindsey's inspiration from her students
26:54 Alex's inspiration from friends and mentors
28:34 Alex's creative freedom and struggle with organization
29:00 Lindsey's joy in watching her students' progress
30:16 No regrets for Alex
30:58 Lindsey's advice: "When in doubt, do without"
31:57 Alex's belief that everything happens for a reason
32:29 Lindsey's desire to start a family
32:39 Lindsey's passion for cooking, baking, and curating photo albums
33:20 Alex sees himself staying in his current job for the long term
33:32 Robert is asked to share his wisdom
33:41 Robert reflects on parenting and the challenges of not having a guidebook
34:18 Robert talks about being involved in his children's lives and documenting their school years
35:04 Holli emphasizes the importance of kindness and being proud of her children
35:35 Alex talks about appreciating his dad's caring and responsible nature
37:16 Lindsey discusses the importance of annoying parents who care
38:09 Robert praises his children and their relationship with each other
38:50 Holli looks forward to the future and wants her children to be happy and follow their passions
39:43 Robert talks about resilience and leaving a legacy
41:37 Holli reflects on being a role model and fostering meaningful relationships
42:09 Robert discusses authenticity and the importance of learning from each other
43:17 Holli talks about leaving a legacy and continuing to share their story
44:00 Robert and Holli thank the listeners and invite feedback
44:44 End of podcast episode
"My parents are my biggest support system, my rock. They help to guide me. They are two people that I can always count on." - Lindsey
"Everything happens for a reason. I've never been worried whenever I've gotten let go or a new opportunity is coming. It's going to work out. - Alex
"Stay calm and persevere." - Lindsey, reflecting on her career in education and the life lessons she has garnered
"It's important to always be there for family." - Holli, encapsulating their family's core philosophy
"It's who you know that matters" - Alex, on the importance of nurturing relationships in career progression"
"My parents are driven, supportive, innovative, genuine, and just kind, warm-hearted people that are… They're just them. They're Holli and Robert, and everybody knows them. And everyone I know has always loved them." - Alex
