In this episode, I talk about the moment I finally let go of trying to control my daughter's addiction and what radical acceptance looked like in real life. I share how fear was running my parenting, how close I came to losing myself completely, and how surrendering shifted our entire relationship.
I also share a story from yesterday that still feels unreal: taking my daughter — almost two years in recovery — and her children to the Magic Kingdom. Watching her run around with her son, sober and present, reminded me why letting go mattered more than forcing my plans onto her.
If you are drowning right now, scared of losing your child, or feel like you can't survive another day of chaos, this episode is for you.
Parenting from fear vs clarity
The breaking point that forced me to surrender
What radical acceptance actually looks like
Why bringing up rehab every day made things worse
How I stopped reacting and started listening
Letting go of the fantasy timeline of recovery
Why self-abandonment is so common in parents
How I rebuilt trust with my daughter
A real exercise you can do tonight to start shifting your own patterns
My book: Do What You Can Live With
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