DEIcipher Podcast

Episode 9: Ecology of Belonging and the "B" of DEIB

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Description

In this conversation, we discuss the concept of belonging and its implications in various settings. We explore the imposition of belonging in DEI initiatives and the challenges of defining and experiencing true belonging. We also discuss the hierarchical nature of organizations and the need for a more inclusive and fluid understanding of belonging. The conversation highlights the importance of self-belonging and connection to nature in fostering a sense of belonging. We share personal experiences of belonging and emphasize the ongoing process of cultivating belonging in different contexts. The conversation explores the concept of belonging and its various dimensions. It delves into the magnetic pull and body knowing that comes with belonging, as well as the joyfulness and rituals that foster a sense of community. The loss of belonging and the grieving process are also discussed, highlighting the bond that is formed within a community. The conversation then examines the role of retreat spaces in creating a sense of belonging and the flaws in the capitalist framework when it comes to fostering true belonging. The importance of belonging in nature and the antidote to toxicity are explored, along with the spiritual journey of belonging. We conclude by emphasizing the need for true transformation and the empowerment that comes with embracing discomfort in the pursuit of belonging.
 
Takeaways
  • Belonging is a subjective experience that cannot be prescriptive or imposed.
  • The concept of belonging is often used in DEI initiatives, but its meaning and implementation vary.
  • Belonging requires a sense of connection to oneself, others, and nature.
  • True belonging is a process, not a finish line, and requires ongoing effort and reflection. Belonging is characterized by a magnetic pull and body knowing.
  • Joyfulness, laughter, and rituals foster a sense of community.
  • The loss of belonging can lead to a grieving process.
  • Belonging in retreat spaces can be powerful but is not necessarily meant to last forever.
  • The capitalist framework often fails to foster true belonging.
  • Belonging in nature is characterized by interbeing and the presence of antidotes to toxicity.
  • Belonging is a spiritual journey that requires embracing discomfort and undergoing true transformation.
Chapters
00:00Introduction and Land Acknowledgement
06:46Exploring the Concept of Belonging
12:30The Imposition of Belonging
16:33Belonging in Corporate Settings
21:43The Process of Belonging
23:43Belonging and Connection
25:23Peak Belonging Experience
26:17The Magnetic Pull of Belonging
26:50Joyfulness and Rituals
27:19Grieving the Loss of Belonging
28:12The Bond of Belonging
29:02Belonging in Retreat Spaces
29:56The Flaws in the Concept of Belonging
30:27Belonging and Capitalism
31:30Belonging and Departure
32:22Belonging in Nature
33:21The Antidote to Toxicity
34:17Belonging as a Spiritual Journey
37:04Micro Moments of Belonging
38:22Belonging and the Capitalist Framework
39:01The Fear of Liberation
40:25The Guru Model and Hierarchy
41:19The Need for True Transformation
42:34The Discomfort of Belonging
43:44The Empowerment of Discomfort
45:06The Dangers of Performative Belonging
46:29Belonging as a Devotion
47:09Belonging to Self and Others
47:54Belonging Rooted in the Earth