Most guys are not bad at flirting. They are just stuck in their head.
In this episode of Guyset, I go back to the basics with Flirting 101. I talk about how to flirt with confidence, how to make the first move without getting stuck in your head, and how to handle rejection without letting it destroy your self-esteem. This is not about pickup lines or dating tricks. It is about mindset, presence, and learning how to put yourself out there in a way that feels natural.
I share real stories from my own dating life, including moments where flirting went wrong, confidence took a hit, and I had to learn how to try again. If you feel nervous talking to women, struggle with fear of rejection, or replay conversations in your head after the fact, this episode is for you.
Whether you are just starting out with dating, getting back into it after a breakup, or trying to feel more confident flirting in real life, this episode breaks down the fundamentals in a simple and honest way.
In this episode, I cover:
This is a foundational episode for guys who want flirting to feel easier, calmer, and more natural.
Timestamps:
00:00 Why flirting still matters for every guy
01:55 Flirting 101 and why we are going back to the basics
04:10 Why fear of rejection holds most guys back
07:00 A real flirting story that did not go well
11:20 How overanalyzing kills confidence
14:45 Stop beating yourself up for awkward moments
17:30 How to get out of your head before you flirt
20:15 Body language, eye contact, and presence
23:10 What to actually say when you walk up to someone
25:00 Asking for her number and making the first move
27:40 When to move on instead of forcing it
30:00 Why flirting is a skill you build through reps
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See you guys next Tuesday!
