In this episode, Ms. Amber recounts her battle with breast cancer diagnosed at 31, amidst her hectic life as a mother of four and managing preschool. She delves into ignoring initial symptoms and the crucial role of intuition in seeking a diagnosis. Amber's story is one of resilience, emphasizing the importance of community support, self-care, and listening to one's body. "You Have Cancer" offers a message of hope and a reminder of life's value through Amber's journey.
Key Highlights:
[00:01 - 12:28] Cancer Diagnosis and Early Struggles
Diagnosed with breast cancer at 31 while managing a busy life with four young children and running preschools.
Began writing a manuscript about a mother with a terminal illness before her own diagnosis.
Noticed her first symptoms on her 30th birthday, but initial concerns were dismissed by doctors.
Persisted for a proper diagnosis, leading to a biopsy confirming cancer.
[13:29 - 21:00] Treatment and Community Support
Underwent a lumpectomy, which did not remove all the cancer, leading to a decision for a bilateral mastectomy.
Received overwhelming support from the community, including meal deliveries and help with her children.
Shared the emotional and physical challenges of surgery and recovery.
Celebrated cancer-free milestones, acknowledging the importance of support and gratitude.
[21:01 - 33:05] Reflections on Health and Intuition
Stressed the importance of listening to one's intuition and not ignoring health concerns.
Discussed the challenges of accepting help and the shift from being a giver to a receiver.
Underlined the value of community support during her cancer journey and recovery.
Emphasized the life-altering impact of cancer, leading to a greater appreciation for life and health.
[33:06 - 37:01] Closing Segment
Advocates for self-care and listening to one's intuition, especially for parents juggling multiple responsibilities.
Reflects on the changes in her life post-cancer, focusing on health, well-being, and the importance of being present.
Encourages others to take stock of their lives, stressing the potential role of stress and lifestyle in health.
Closes with a message of hope and empowerment, encouraging listeners to pursue their dreams and listen to their inner voice.
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Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.
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Tweetable Quotes:
"As parents, as women, we tend to put ourselves on the back burner and we put everybody else ahead of us." - Ms. Amber
"I started really thinking about like, well, I better kind of handle this because also my intuition was telling me that something was not right." - Ms. Amber
"The amount of support was tremendous because the script was flipped. I was on the receiving end and it's really hard to accept help when you're always the one giving it, but it was a humbling experience." - Ms. Amber
"There's always this piece of maybe survivor's guilt, like why, why did I make it? And they did not. And that's the thing about life. Like, it's not because one's a better person or more good or more bad. It's just life happens." - Ms. Amber
"Life is a gift, it truly is, even in the really hard and mess, it's a gift." - Ms. Amber
