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We'll explore everything from setting the right mindset for both parents and kids, to adopting a belief in every child’s competence—no matter their age or learning style. You’ll learn how to foster a growth mindset, build routines that balance predictability with flexibility, and adapt activities for learners at all different stages. I'll also share my own daily rhythm, helpful tips for including toddlers and preschoolers, and strategies for sparking curiosity and connection in daily learning.
If you’re looking for ways to create a more peaceful, productive, and connected homeschool environment—this conversation is for you. Get ready for actionable ideas, thoughtful reflections, and encouragement as you chart your own unique path in homeschooling.
In this episode you'll hear about:
- Importance of mindset in homeschooling
- Common worries (e.g., “Am I doing enough?”, distributing attention among kids)
- Reassurance: homeschooling parents are not defined by perfect execution
- Essential values: curiosity, compassion, and connection
- Growth Mindset Theory
- Introduction to Dr. Carol Dweck’s work on Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset
- Phrases to encourage growth mindset (e.g., “You might not understand it yet…”)
- Encouraging parents to shift self-talk toward growth
- Modeling growth mindset for children
- Homeschool-specific context: lack of classroom comparison—importance of modeling struggle and correction
- Presuming Competence in Learners
- Definition and importance of presuming competence
- Reference to “Presuming Competence” article by Douglas Biklen & Jamie Burke
- Potential harms of presuming incompetence (lowered expectations, limited opportunities)
- Examples of how to presume competence in a homeschool setting
- Establishing Routine and Rhythm
- Difference between strict schedules and flexible rhythms
- Value of predictability to allow for flexibility (“predictability allows for flexibility”)
- Anecdotes about morning routines and handling unpredictability
- Sample daily rhythm in Sarah’s homeschool
- Incorporating Movement and Chores
- Chores as structured movement and sensory input for kids
- Personalization of chores to children’s sensory and developmental needs
- Importance of movement right after morning time
- Transitioning Between Subjects
- Connecting the Day to Family Needs
- Adapting for Mixed Ages and Abilities
- Managing Homeschool with Babies and Toddlers
- Encouraging Curiosity in Older Kids
- The COWLICKS Mnemonic for Field Trips
- Building Connection and Independence
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