After decades of exploring the intersection of courage and creativity, I've discovered something that contradicts everything we've been taught about making ourselves more "lovable." In this episode, I share the exact moment in a college bar bathroom line that changed how I understood the relationship between intelligence and intimacy—and why bringing your full self to love might be the bravest creative act you'll ever attempt.
If you've ever felt like you need to shrink your brilliance, tone down your questions, or perform a more palatable version of yourself to be chosen, this conversation will crack something open. Drawing on the profound wisdom of poet David Whyte, I reveal why the vulnerability you've been avoiding is the doorway to alchemical transformation in relationships and in life.
Listen now and embrace a loving life without shrinking.
