In this week's Cawfee Tawk, we dive into the Italian-American Word of the Week: ashpet—from aspettare, "to wait." A word New York Italians famously do not live by. I talk about how patience has never been our community's strong suit… and honestly, it hasn't been mine either.
I share a personal story about growing up with a brave single mom who put herself in therapy when I was six so she wouldn't repeat the patterns she came from. Even as a first grader, I was a nervous kid with zero patience for myself—had to ace every test, be perfect, do everything "the best." Spoiler: that hasn't exactly disappeared in adulthood.
I connect "aspett" to how I push myself today—whether it's crafting this podcast or grinding in stand-up comedy—and how I'm finally learning to slow down and be kinder to myself. And I remind my listeners that the same goes for them: whatever journey they're on—relationships, work, career, health, lifestyle—they deserve patience from themselves too.
A little language, a little comedy, a little therapy… and a whole lotta cawfee.
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Welcome to Cawfee Tawk with Tara Cannistraci AKA TaraJokes! Join comedian Tara Cannistraci every Monday! Tara reflects on the week that was or the life that was, whether it's nostalgia about NYC life, current trends, or real-life stories. This podcast is perfectly timed to accompany your morning coffee. Good morning, fellow cawfee lovers!
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Tara Cannistraci is an Italian-American comedian, actress, and writer, hailing from the vibrant streets of the Bronx, New York. Tara's talents have lit up the stage, television, film, and even centerfield as the scoreboard host for the New York Yankees.
Tara brought her unfiltered, humorous take on popular sports topics to SNY's Emmy award-winning television show "Oh Yeah," where she both wrote for and featured in the series. Currently, she co-hosts the Chazz Palminteri Show podcast, captivating audiences with her honest insights and vivacious personality. She also co-produced and starred in We Stand Comedy's multi award-winning short film "The Chart" showcasing her versatility & misdirecting sense of humor.
On social media, Tara has gained a following by sharing the words and phrases she grew up hearing in her New York Italian neighborhood, resonating with people across the country. Her comedy album, "I'm Talkin' Here," is a regular feature on Sirius XM.
Tara's new YouTube series, "Boroughbreds," features her doing hilarious on-the-street interviews throughout the New York boroughs, highlighting all things New York from common phrases to family owned businesses.
Tara has opened for comedy heavyweights like Josh Wolf, Joey Diaz and Vic DiBitetto, and now headlines shows across the U.S. and Canada. Her authenticity and wit continue to win over audiences wherever she performs!
