In this solo episode, I break down the Italian-American phrase "fatti gli affari tuoi" — mind your own business — which is basically the unofficial holiday motto whether we want it to be or not. With the season of opinions, questions, judgments, and unsolicited life advice rolling in like a stampede of Nonnas, I talk about why keeping your nose in your own gravy is sometimes the greatest gift you can give… to yourself.
I share a story from last Thanksgiving, when I walked into a family member's house only to be told I was "too old to have babies." Cue the internal fireworks. Meanwhile, this person doesn't even live a life I'd ever want for myself — yet there I was, spiraling. And it reminded me: why am I giving their opinion VIP access in my brain?
I also get honest about the flip side — how I sometimes care too much about the people I love, especially when I see them making choices that look destructive from the outside. I talk about how hard it is to not jump in, fix, guide, advise, or rescue… and how learning to "mind my business" is an act of love too. For them and for me.
It's a holiday pep talk, an Italian-American reality check, and a reminder that peace comes from knowing what's yours to hold… and what's not.
🙋🏻♀️ 🇮🇹Check out Tara's Live Show!
👉https://taracannistraci.com/#shows
📲 Follow Tara on Social Media!
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tarajokes/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tarajokes
Twitter: https://twitter.com/tarajokes
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TaraCannistraci/
Welcome to Cawfee Tawk with Tara Cannistraci AKA TaraJokes! Join comedian Tara Cannistraci every Monday! Tara reflects on the week that was or the life that was, whether it's nostalgia about NYC life, current trends, or real-life stories. This podcast is perfectly timed to accompany your morning coffee. Good morning, fellow cawfee lovers!
--
Tara Cannistraci is an Italian-American comedian, actress, and writer, hailing from the vibrant streets of the Bronx, New York. Tara's talents have lit up the stage, television, film, and even centerfield as the scoreboard host for the New York Yankees.
Tara brought her unfiltered, humorous take on popular sports topics to SNY's Emmy award-winning television show "Oh Yeah," where she both wrote for and featured in the series. Currently, she co-hosts the Chazz Palminteri Show podcast, captivating audiences with her honest insights and vivacious personality. She also co-produced and starred in We Stand Comedy's multi award-winning short film "The Chart" showcasing her versatility & misdirecting sense of humor.
On social media, Tara has gained a following by sharing the words and phrases she grew up hearing in her New York Italian neighborhood, resonating with people across the country. Her comedy album, "I'm Talkin' Here," is a regular feature on Sirius XM.
Tara's new YouTube series, "Boroughbreds," features her doing hilarious on-the-street interviews throughout the New York boroughs, highlighting all things New York from common phrases to family owned businesses.
Tara has opened for comedy heavyweights like Josh Wolf, Joey Diaz and Vic DiBitetto, and now headlines shows across the U.S. and Canada. Her authenticity and wit continue to win over audiences wherever she performs!
