In this solo episode of Cawfee Tawk, I break down the very Italian-American phrase "finalmente." Technically it means "finally"… but culturally? It means, "About time. What took you so long?"
Finally got engaged. Finally had a baby. Finally bought a house. Somehow a win turns into a subtle roast.
I talk about how living in a constant "finalmente" mindset keeps us chasing the next thing instead of celebrating how far we've come. Why does every accomplishment immediately get followed by, "Okay… so what's next?" And why do so many of us feel like if we say something good out loud, we'll jinx it and it won't happen?
I also open up about going to therapy—not because something is "wrong," but because having an unbiased space to talk feels safe and necessary. Plus, I get into the New York accent discourse—why people think we sound uneducated when so many of us are anything but—and how growing up in New York is the reason I talk fast, drop half my consonants, and never finish a word.
It's funny, a little vulnerable, and maybe the permission you need to enjoy your wins without a "finally" attached to them.
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Welcome to Cawfee Tawk with Tara Cannistraci AKA TaraJokes! Join comedian Tara Cannistraci every Monday! Tara reflects on the week that was or the life that was, whether it's nostalgia about NYC life, current trends, or real-life stories. This podcast is perfectly timed to accompany your morning coffee. Good morning, fellow cawfee lovers!
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Tara Cannistraci is an Italian-American comedian, actress, and writer, hailing from the vibrant streets of the Bronx, New York. Tara's talents have lit up the stage, television, film, and even centerfield as the scoreboard host for the New York Yankees.
Tara brought her unfiltered, humorous take on popular sports topics to SNY's Emmy award-winning television show "Oh Yeah," where she both wrote for and featured in the series. Currently, she co-hosts the Chazz Palminteri Show podcast, captivating audiences with her honest insights and vivacious personality. She also co-produced and starred in We Stand Comedy's multi award-winning short film "The Chart" showcasing her versatility & misdirecting sense of humor.
On social media, Tara has gained a following by sharing the words and phrases she grew up hearing in her New York Italian neighborhood, resonating with people across the country. Her comedy album, "I'm Talkin' Here," is a regular feature on Sirius XM.
Tara's new YouTube series, "Boroughbreds," features her doing hilarious on-the-street interviews throughout the New York boroughs, highlighting all things New York from common phrases to family owned businesses.
Tara has opened for comedy heavyweights like Josh Wolf, Joey Diaz and Vic DiBitetto, and now headlines shows across the U.S. and Canada. Her authenticity and wit continue to win over audiences wherever she performs!
