Rise Up & Roar

94) You Can't Bootstrap Kindness

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Overview
  • Personal story illustrates impact of kind communication in a church setting, highlighting the surprise of a young girl previously unfamiliar with such interactions.
  • Biblical foundation for kindness rooted in Ephesians 4:31-32 emphasizes need for cooperation with the Holy Spirit for genuine transformation.
  • Three root causes of unkindness identified: lack of modeling, hurt from trauma, and absence of a relationship with Christ.
  • Salvation path articulated through Romans 10:9-10, underscoring the belief in Jesus' resurrection and commitment to follow Him.
  • The Holy Spirit's role in transformation discussed, focusing on the fruit of the Spirit found in Galatians 5:22-23, particularly kindness.
  • Inner healing ministry highlighted as essential for addressing trauma, referencing Hebrews 4:16 for access to God's grace and James 5:14 for communal healing support.
  • Jesus serves as the ultimate model of kindness, exemplified through His actions in the Gospel of Mark and His forgiving words while on the cross.
  • Steps to overcome unkindness outlined: confession, breaking agreements with negativity, and seeking Holy Spirit's filling.
  • Upcoming 'Speak Life' workshop promotes practical strategies for addressing unkind speech and fostering empowerment in individuals.
  • Importance of seeking mature believers who display kindness as models for personal growth and transformation in faith.
Biblical Foundation for Kindness (01:33 - 03:06)
  • References Ephesians 4:31-32 as core scripture: removing bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, slander and replacing with kindness, tenderheartedness, and forgiveness
  • Emphasizes cooperation with Holy Spirit rather than self-effort for sustainable kindness
  • Speaker admits personal experience with season of bitterness and harsh words requiring Holy Spirit's work for transformation
Three Root Causes of Unkindness (03:06 - 04:54)
  • Never Been Modeled - People who have never experienced or witnessed kindness, only saw niceness when wanting something
  • Wounded People - 'Hurting people hurt people' - those acting from pain and spiritual wounds, compared to dangerous cornered animals
  • Need Jesus - Those without relationship with Christ lacking foundation for true kindness
Salvation Message (04:54 - 06:27)
  • Cites Romans 10:9-10 for clear salvation path: declaring Jesus as Lord and believing in resurrection
  • Leads salvation prayer for listeners: acknowledging need for Jesus, believing in his death and resurrection, commitment to follow
  • References Ephesians 2:8-9 emphasizing salvation by grace through faith, not works
  • Quotes Colossians 1:13-14 about rescue from darkness kingdom and transfer to God's kingdom
Holy Spirit's Role in Transformation (08:03 - 09:36)
  • Cites Galatians 5:22-23 listing fruit of Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control
  • Emphasizes cooperation with Holy Spirit to unlearn toxic habits from 'kingdom of darkness' background
  • Explains new believers must learn to live as new creation while unlearning old patterns
Inner Healing Ministry (09:36 - 12:48)
  • States everyone deals with trauma - both 'big T' (abandonment, betrayal, abuse) and 'little T' (embarrassment, name-calling)
  • References Hebrews 4:16 for bold access to God's throne for mercy and grace
  • Cites James 5:14 about calling elders for prayer and healing, extending to soul/spirit wounds
  • References Galatians 6:2 about sharing burdens as scriptural basis for inner healing ministry
️ Jesus as Model for Kindness (16:15 - 17:54)
  • Recommends reading Gospel of Mark for new believers to learn Jesus' example of gentleness and kindness
  • Acknowledges Jesus' harsh words to Pharisees due to their misrepresentation of God, but notes his kindness to individuals like rich young man, woman at well, centurion
  • Highlights Jesus' ultimate kindness: 'Father, forgive them, they don't know what they're doing' while on cross
️ Steps to Overcome Unkindness (17:54 - 20:50)
  • Confess and Repent - Own words and actions, confess following flesh instead of Spirit, ask forgiveness for damage caused
  • Break Enemy Agreements - Cancel agreements made with enemy regarding unkind words, gather up warfare under Jesus' feet using believer's authority
  • Holy Spirit Filling - Ask Holy Spirit to fill places where unkindness resided and produce his fruit
Action items
  • Pray salvation prayer acknowledging Jesus as Lord and believing in his death/resurrection (04:54)
  • Contact Carrie via comment or email to share salvation decision for encouragement (06:27)
  • Reach out to speaker for prayer support if needed (12:48)
  • Visit https://CarrieHurley.com under services/soul care to learn about healing sessions (14:24)
  • Read Gospel of Mark to learn Jesus' example of kindness and gentleness (16:15)
  • Follow three-step process: confess/repent, break enemy agreements, ask Holy Spirit filling (17:54)
  • Register for 'Speak Life' workshop on June 22nd via https://CarrieHurley.com/workshop (22:09)
  • Find mature believers who demonstrate fruit of the Spirit as models for kindness (17:54)

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