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In this episode, I explain the critical parenting mistake between ages 12–18 that determines whether teens grow into capable, independent adults or struggle to launch in their 20s. I'll walk you through the research showing why autonomy restriction during the teen years backfires, and why your teen's push for independence is actually a healthy sign of brain development. You'll learn what supporting autonomy really looks like in everyday situations, how to guide without controlling, and how helping teens practice decision-making now builds confidence, resilience, and the skills they need to thrive as adults.

New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future.

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00:00 – 0:39: Introduction  
0:39 – 1:14: The Developmental Shift  
1:14 – 1:50: What Support Looks Like in Practice  
1:50 – 2:21: The Long‑Term Outcome