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Invest in your family relationships—not just another parenting course. Join The Amazing Parents Club for the complete 5 C's framework + community → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club 

In this video, I explain the critical mistake parents often make between ages 6–11 that determines whether their child hides struggles or turns to them for support during the teen years. Drawing on decades of research and my work with families, I show how tying love to performance creates anxiety and perfectionism, while unconditional positive regard builds trust, resilience, and open communication. You'll learn what unconditional acceptance looks like in everyday moments during failures, disappointments, and successes—and why becoming your child's safe place now shapes the relationship you'll have with them for life.

New to my podcast?  I'm Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future.

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00:00 – 0:42: Introduction  
0:42 – 1:12: The Core Problem  
1:12 – 1:56: What This Looks Like in Real Life  
1:56 – 2:34: The Long‑Term Impact