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Welcome back to The Leadership Break, the podcast where you can unwind, recharge, and believe in yourself again. I'm your host, Paula Chapulis, and in this episode, we're tackling a topic that resonates with so many leaders: Imposter Syndrome. Whether it's a subtle background noise in your mind or a full-blown self-doubt spiral, imposter syndrome can affect how you lead and live.

Episode Highlights:

• What is Imposter Syndrome?
  Originally coined as the "Imposter Phenomenon" by Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes in 1978, this term describes persistent self-doubt despite external success. Learn how it has evolved to include all genders, professions, and cultural contexts.
• How It Shows Up in Leadership
  Common patterns include:
1. Perfectionism and Overwork: The relentless need to prove yourself often leads to burnout.
2. Fear of Delegation: A reluctance to share tasks can create mistrust in your team.
3. Hesitant Decision-Making: Second-guessing decisions can frustrate those around you.
4. Isolation: Leaders may fear vulnerability, further deepening their self-doubt.
• The Competence Model
  We explore the four stages of competence—unconscious incompetence, conscious incompetence, conscious competence, and unconscious competence—and how understanding them can help normalize the learning process as a leader.
• Practical Coaching Approaches
  Paula shares four strategies to address imposter syndrome:
1. Reframe Success: Shift your mindset to see failures as growth opportunities and embrace your achievements.
2. Practice Self-Compassion: Use vulnerability as a strength and extend kindness to yourself, just as you would to a friend.
3. Set Reflective Goals: Focus on growth over perfection and pause to appreciate how far you've come.
4. Build a Support System: Seek mentorship and feedback to strengthen your self-belief and normalize doubt.

Resources Mentioned:

• Books:
• Dare to Lead by Brené Brown – Learn to use vulnerability as a strength.
• The Gap and the Gain by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin Hardy – Shift your focus from what you haven't achieved to how far you've come.

Key Takeaways:

• Imposter syndrome doesn't mean you're failing; it means you're growing.
• Trust the process and acknowledge your achievements.
• You're not alone—most leaders feel this way at some point, and it's a sign you're pushing your limits.

Call to Action:

Feeling like an imposter? Take a moment to reflect on your accomplishments, reframe your inner dialogue, and connect with your support system. Remember, someone believed in you—so should you.

Thanks for taking a break with me today! If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, share it with other leaders, and leave a review. Let's keep the conversation going on LinkedIn or Instagram—find me at @aiyanacoaching.

Until next time, take care and keep believing in yourself.

Music by Chris Collins, https://indiemusicbox.com/