In this episode, Melanie speaks with Megan Tyschuk, a professional dating coach and matchmaker with Love at First Like, about what it really takes to find meaningful connections today. Whether you're navigating dating apps, seeking long-term love, or wondering how to approach first dates, Megan shares practical advice, emotional insights, and success stories that prove love is still very possible—and within reach.
The evolution and role of dating apps: benefits and pitfalls
What it means to be intentional in dating and why it matters
How to set healthy boundaries early in relationships
The importance of leadership and confidence on first dates
Traditional vs. modern approaches to paying and chivalry
Recognizing genuine interest versus love bombing or manipulation
The science behind hormones, attraction, and the chase
Managing expectations: non-negotiables versus negotiables
Success stories: from client matchmaking to engaged couples
How self-love and mindset influence your dating journey
00:00 - Introducing Megan Tyschuk and the theme of modern dating
02:00 - Megan's background and services: coaching, matchmaking, events
04:00 - Pros and cons of dating apps in today's matchmaking landscape
05:50 - The significance of intentionality in modern dating
07:30 - The role of boundaries and respect early in relationships
09:45 - First date mistakes: active listening and confidence issues
11:50 - The importance of men taking leadership and showing confidence
13:40 - Traditional roles, paying the bill, and modern expectations
15:59 - How to handle rejection and ghosting gracefully
17:20 - Success story: from application to engagement after strategic matchmaking
19:00 - The emotional and hormonal science behind attraction and the chase
21:00 - Recognizing authentic interest versus love bombing and manipulation
23:50 - How self-awareness and mindset affect attraction and relationship longevity
26:20 - Managing expectations: what's negotiable vs. non-negotiable
28:50 - The importance of self-love as the foundation for healthy relationships
31:30 - Megan's advice for those feeling overwhelmed or exhausted by dating
33:50 - Final thoughts: dating is a reflection of self, start with you
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