Kathryn welcomes her guests Melissa Kirsch, author of, The Girls Guide to Absolutely Everything and Dr Bethany Marshall, author of , Deal Breakers, to the show. THE GIRL'S GUIDE TO ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING "is the ultimate book for women who are post-college and pre-marriage. It provides indispensable tips and been-there, done-that secrets for averting life crises (rather than simply surviving them) and thriving in your 20s and beyond." DEAL BREAKERS: When to Work On A Relationship and When to Walk Away This is a book about men. Not all men, just emotionally unhealthy men. The ones who make you question, Is it him or is it me? Am I making too big a deal out of this? I try to tell him how I feel, but he says I'm overreacting or needy or it's all my fault." Relationships are hard work, but how hard should they be? When do you know you are struggling too hard to make a relationship succeed?"