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"We sing, we create, we play, we have fun and it can't be one without the other."

In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob speaks with Bella Ely, a music teacher with 23 years of teaching experience who specialises in working with autistic children.

Bella shares how she discovered the power of music as a tool for emotional regulation early in her career, working with vulnerable children in foster care and orphanages.

She explains her unique approach to online music sessions that combine creativity, play, and emotional regulation strategies, helping children and their families build confidence and find joy. Bella's story offers practical insights and inspiration for anyone supporting neurodivergent children.

Key takeaways:

  • Music is a powerful tool for emotional regulation, especially for children in survival mode who cannot focus on traditional learning.

  • Creativity and play create safe spaces where neurodivergent children can express themselves without the pressure of traditional learning.

  • Including parents in sessions helps them learn regulation strategies like pizza breathing, fostering a holistic approach to support.

  • Group sessions help children realize they are not alone in their experiences, reducing feelings of isolation and shame.

"You are not the only one at all. Reach out, find your tribe, you'll see you are not the only one. Keep it up, because you are the best parent, carer, and professional you can be."

About Bella Ely:

Bella Ely is a music teacher with 23 years of teaching experience across multiple countries. For the past three years, she has specialised in working with autistic children through her practice, Sing, Create, Play. Bella combines music education with emotional regulation techniques, creating joyful and supportive online sessions that engage both children and their families. Her approach emphasises creativity, play, and building community, helping neurodivergent children develop confidence while parents learn valuable strategies to support their child's emotional wellbeing.

Where to find Bella Ely:

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