Hi, beautiful souls and welcome to another #MentalHealthMonday episode of The Meredith Patterson Podcast—Today's episode is simple, powerful, and deeply personal.
We're writing a letter—to our future self.
Whether you're listening to this in your car, out on a walk, folding laundry, or hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of peace (Mama's, I see you)—I want you to pause for a moment and imagine this:
Who are you becoming?
Because the truth is: what we focus on expands.
And when we get intentional with our thoughts, our words, and our vision…the Universe listens.
There was a time in my life, not so long ago, when I had hit what felt like the bottom. Emotionally. Financially. Spiritually. I was a Broadway actress who had filed for bankruptcy and the next year divorce. My heart was broken. My confidence was shattered. I had no idea what was next.
And in the middle of all that… upon the brilliant advice from my therapist Terri Cole, I wrote a letter.
Not a journal entry. Not a cry for help.
A letter—to the woman I knew I could become.
It was a turning point. A declaration.
A moment where I stopped asking "why me?" and started saying, "Yes. This is who I am now."
I wrote that letter in the present tense—as if everything I wanted had already happened. This is important. You aren't wanting it and seeing it "out there" as something to obtain. You are writing the letter celebrating what is already yours….
In this letter I described the kind of life I was living…
the kind of woman I had become…
the kind of partner I had attracted…
the career, the peace, the home, the love, the bliss that is my birthright.
Here's a piece of what I wrote back then:
"I wake up feeling calm and grateful.
I live in a home filled with light, love, music, and laughter.
I am a successful performer, writer, and creator.
I am married to a man who adores me—kind, talented, humble, funny, grounded.
We are raising our two children with joy, presence, and love.
I feel whole. I feel safe. I feel free."
I wrote it 6 months before I met my now husband, Dustin.
Before we had our two beautiful sons.
Before I found peace in motherhood and reinvested my magic in manifesting.
But that letter? It opened the door. I started reading it every day and believing it to already be true.
It aligned my energy with the woman I was becoming.
The Universe listened and it came to me faster than I expected. And my only obstacle was honestly, me accepting how fast everything was changing and trusting that it was exactly what I asked for.
From a mindset perspective, writing to your future self has real power.
It helps:
Reduce anxiety by shifting your focus from fear to faith.
Clarify your vision so your subconscious can start working in your favor.
Build confidence by reminding you that where you are now is not where you'll always be.
And most importantly, it activates hope—the most powerful medicine we have.
So today, I invite you to write your own letter.
Here's how to begin:
Start with the date – One year from today.
For example: August ___, 2026
Write in the present tense.
Not "I hope…" but "I am and I have."
Get specific.
Where are you waking up? Who are you with? What do you do each day?
What do you feel like in this version of your life?
Focus on feelings.
Not just the external results—but the internal shift. Do you feel calm? Confident? Aligned?
Close it with gratitude.
Thank the Universe. Thank yourself. Anchor in the belief that it's already yours.
This practice is not about "wishing."
It's about aligning.
It's about stepping into the vibration of the life you want—and starting to live it now, moment by moment.
Because the version of you who is already living your dream life?
She's not a fantasy.
She's already inside you, waiting to be remembered.
If you do this exercise, I would love to hear from you.
Tag me on Instagram @merpatterson or email me your letter. You don't have to share the whole thing—just tell me what shifted for you. What you saw. What you felt.
And if this episode inspired you, please leave a 5-star review, subscribe, and share it with a friend who needs hope today.
You can also pick up the Bliss Is Your Birthright affirmation card deck—created to help you stay grounded in the vision of who you're becoming. The purchase link is in the show notes.
Remember: you are not broken. You are becoming.
You are not behind. You are right on time.
Write the letter.
Live the life.
And never stop dreaming.
I love you. I believe in you.
See you next time.
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