Have you ever poured your heart into a long message — explaining, defending, clarifying — only to feel dismissed, misunderstood, or attacked all over again?
If so, you're not failing.
You're stuck in a communication trap that almost every well-meaning mom falls into.
In this episode, I explain why explaining yourself to your adult child actually makes things worse, especially when the relationship is strained or estranged. You'll learn about the JADE pattern — Justifying, Arguing, Defending, and Explaining — and why it fuels conflict instead of resolving it.
More importantly, I'll show you what to say instead so you can:
Stop walking on eggshells
Protect your peace and dignity
Respond from strength instead of fear
Validate emotions without accepting accusations
Break the cycle of endless arguments
If you're exhausted, confused, or feel like you're losing yourself trying to keep the peace, I invite you to book a Heart-to-Heart Consultation — a guided call to help you find clarity and direction in your healing process.
This is not a coaching session.
It's a real conversation to explore what kind of support would best serve you right now.
👉 Book your Heart-to-Heart Consultation here: https://calendly.com/sallyharris-discoverycall/30min
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Mom, this is your weekend — a space to release the weight you've been carrying, connect with women who truly get it, and rediscover your hope and strength.
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