This week, Stefanie Michele (coach + somatic practitioner) and Sarah Dosanjh (psychotherapist + author) explore the tender, often confusing territory of outgrowing friendships—and why it can feel more complicated than a breakup.

They unpack what it’s like to feel the slow drift, the quiet mismatch, or the emotional flatness in relationships that once felt vital. When values change, life phases shift, or emotional reciprocity feels lopsided, it’s hard to know whether to let go, hang on, or renegotiate the dynamic.

The episode weaves in personal stories, including reflections on feeling loyal to people we've quietly drifted from, and how we now values friendships more by emotional return than shared history...but only sometimes?

They also discuss the subtle grief of friendship breakups—the kind that don’t get a ritual or a goodbye, just a slow fade. And they look at the tension of trying to grow while staying connected to people who don’t necessarily grow in the same direction.

This is a conversation about emotional nuance. About boundaries that aren’t rigid, but real. About letting people be who they are while also choosing who gets to be close.

If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s okay to outgrow someone—or if you’ve stayed in a friendship out of obligation, guilt, or nostalgia—this one’s for you.