Hosts Roy Clary and MB Roberts tackle one of caregiving's hardest challenges, having difficult conversations with family members about an aging parent's care.
Drawing from their own experiences as adult children and caregivers, they explore what makes these conversations so difficult and why they often backfire. Roy shares how a decision to let his mom visit family led to criticism and fractured relationships. MB reflects on waiting too long to address financial issues. And together, they discuss practical strategies for approaching sensitive topics like moving to senior living, healthcare decisions and financial matters.
The conversation covers timing, listening skills, emotional regulation and the importance of building a support team. They remind listeners that these conversations aren't about being right or taking control - they're about protection and working together across generations.
Roy's Experience with Family Criticism - 00:52
The Guilt of Taking Control - 02:56
Don't Wait for a Crisis - 03:51
Setting the Right Time and Place - 06:18
Listening More Than Talking - 08:30
Managing Your Own Emotions - 12:45
Having a Third Party Present - 15:20
Young Caregivers Face Extra Challenges - 18:30
Building Your Support Army - 21:46
It's Not About Being Right - 23:13
Resources:
Brookdale Senior Living
https://www.brookdale.com
Family Caregiver Alliance
https://www.caregiver.org
AARP Caregiving Resource Center
https://www.aarp.org/caregiving
Caring.com
https://www.caring.com
American Association of Caregiving Youth
https://www.aacy.org
The Grey Take Voicemail Line - 833-473-9898
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