* Love Thy Neighbor intro with Colette Fair and sold out book party in Maitland
* Middle names used on air
* Dan originally named Dan Lee before radio
* Name came from college musician friend
* Dan hated Dan Lee and changed it
* Joke about Daniel Day Lewis
* Colette knowing little about the hosts
* Bear suit embarrassment story
* Sudden shift from jokes to tragedy
* Local therapist murder suicide case
* Therapist client boundary risks
* Story appearing in social feeds
* Avoiding news for mental health
* Garbage in garbage out media rule
* Balance between news and sanity
* After hours therapy attack details
* Former client returning violent
* Victim therapist Rebecca White named
* Praise for her compassion and work
* Specialized in offender treatment
* Hurt people hurt people idea
* Rehab versus punishment debate
* Attacker criminal history noted
* Therapist asked intruder to leave
* Other client threatened 911
* Therapist and client stabbed
* Client expected to recover
* Attacker fled then killed himself
* Suicide outside a church
* Knife violence against women focus
* Therapist workplace safety concerns
* Colette no longer working nights
* Husband staying late for protection
* Violence against women ongoing issue
* Emotional toll on therapist community
* Invited to Mayor Demings forum
* Florida ranked 49th in funding
* Criticism of state priorities
* Florida crime headline jokes
* Open records and sunshine laws
* Population growth adding pressure
* Call for more mental health access
* Crazy goes south saying
* Florida penal colony jokes
* Aging jokes and sideburn talk
* Teasing as closeness sign
* Mental health spectrum discussion
* Addiction and illness as major issues
* Extreme cases versus everyday struggle
* Middle group quietly suffering
* Job loss divorce depression stress
* Fixing middle improves outcomes
* Burnout culture and nonstop work
* Fake perfect life online
* Social media unrealistic standards
* Deepfakes harming kids
* Tech damaging relationships
* Transition to relationships talk
* Drive affecting a spouse
* Husband joking stay at home role
* Calm personality praised
* Four beers test of likability
* Not threatened by partner success
* Living with driven people hard
* Being too hard on self
* Inner critic negativity
* Lighten up advice
* Fear of laziness behind criticism
* Childhood roots of self talk
* Rest as productive reframed
* Burnout and withdrawal
* Kinder self dialogue
* Self compassion helps relationships
* Difficulty accepting kindness
* Sports psychology model
* Forget mistakes quickly
* Neutral mindset example
* NFL playoff psychology
* Brady emotional detachment joke
* Success versus family trade offs
* Some born for singular greatness
* Attraction to driven partners
* Smart women mislabeled cold
* Support for partner success
* Book launch consuming life
* Post launch emotional crash
* Planning future goals
* Anticipation improves happiness
* Planning small trips together
* Novelty strengthens attraction
* Listener emails segment
* Frozen camera double finger moment
* Listener praise for joyful start
* Married out of league joke
* Relationship listeners theory
* Even good relationships struggle
* Anonymous email call
* Long marriage listener story
* Autistic executive function issues
* Pebble in shoe story
* Always accommodating partner dynamic
* Get my way credit question
* You cannot bank compliance points
* Case by case decisions
* Communicate why it matters
* I dont care restaurant problem
* Engagement versus checking out
* No transactional relationships
* Asking directly early
* Avoid resentment arguments
* Reframing I dont care language
* Helping brainstorm choices
* Colette book preorder plug
* Book on Amazon and Barnes
* Audiobook coming soon
* Episode close and sign off
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