Terrible dates don't define your love life. In this episode, Carla Romo breaks down why one bad date doesn't mean you're the problem, why someone never being in a relationship isn't automatically a red flag, and how emotional unavailability shows up in dating. In the TACO segment, Carla Romo dives into sexual compatibility: why sex evolves, how communication matters, and why you shouldn't panic if it's not amazing the first time.
What You'll Learn
Why one bad date doesn't define your dating journey
Why being single for a long time isn't a red flag
How emotional unavailability shows up in subtle ways
Why vulnerability matters more than perfection
How communication creates sexual compatibility
Why sex evolves over time
Why you shouldn't compare yourself to dating expectations
How self-worth and resilience boost dating success
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Sound Bites
"I'm gonna tap out of the dating game."
"Sex evolves; the purpose is to enjoy it."
"Don't freak out if it wasn't that great."
Chapters
00:00 — Terrible First Dates
05:31 — "Never Been in a Relationship" Isn't a Red Flag
10:21 — Emotional Unavailability in Dating
20:24 — TACO: Sexual Compatibility
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