In this episode of Carla Turned On, Carla Romo breaks down what truly makes a relationship healthy—especially amid Valentine's Day pressure and romanticized chaos. She explains why healthy love feels calm, why communication and conflict matter, and why body count and sexual history should be about safety and honesty, not shame.
What You'll Learn
Choosing the right partner matters more than romance
Valentine's Day can create unrealistic pressure
Healthy relationships include conflict and communication
Chaos does not equal passion
Love should feel calm and secure
Body count does not define worth or health
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Sound Bites
"Chaos does not equal passion."
"You have to earn the love."
"Body count does not matter."
Chapters
00:00 — Carla's Honeymoon Fiasco & Why Who You Marry Matters
05:59 — Valentine's Day
10:28 — What Is Actually a Healthy Relationship—and What Is Not
29:09 — Sexual History & Body Count
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