In this conversation, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the concept of cultivating a servant-hearted marriage, emphasizing the importance of serving one another selflessly. They explore how serving each other can create a loving and respectful environment, reflecting God's design for marriage. The discussion includes practical ways to serve, the impact of a servant-hearted marriage on family dynamics, and the barriers that can hinder this service. They also highlight the significance of self-examination and seeking help when facing challenges in marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Cultivating a servant-hearted marriage requires daily choices to act in love.
Children benefit from witnessing a servant-hearted marriage.
A servant-hearted marriage reflects God's design and glorifies Him.
Serving one another should come from the heart, not a checklist. Counseling can help break negative patterns in marriage.
Couples Conversation Guide:
Main takeaway:
God’s design for marriage goes far beyond just coexisting with your spouse. Serving one another, respecting their wants and needs, and creating a loving relationship reflect the heart of the Lord and His design for the marriage relationship.
Questions to Discuss:
What stands in the way of you selflessly serving your spouse?
Has your relationship with your spouse become transactional?
QUOTES
"Serving is saying, sure, I can do that."
"Don't stay stuck there."
"You don't just grow better."
"God sees you."
"It's gonna make a difference."
“If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security.”
“Having a marriage that’s not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy.”
“When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too.”
“I can’t meet all her needs, but God can.”
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