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Why your husband drives you to eat.

 

1:30 Is your husband your biggest trigger?

2:09Does he drive you to eat?

4:20 They know our triggers

5:03 No one gets under our skin like our spouses.

5:21 We feel most vulnerable

6:08 Anyone can drive us to eat

6:55 They can be the most inflexible

7:45 How I cope

8:37 Not living in blame mode

9:53 Writing reveals what is hidden

11:20 The truth of the situation

11:47 We attach our well being to how they behave

13:07 It's the best lesson in letting go, surrender, live and let live, minding your own business.

14:20 A relationship can't fix you, its not their jot to make you feel ok

16:20 Selfish desires, and addressing your own fears

17:20 you can't change another person

18:00 Surrendering your agenda

18:30 We always end up hating the qualities we loved.

19:00 Roy: speaks his mind, doesn't care what people think.

24:20 Let go of the agenda and have unconditional love

25:50 No one can drive us to eat. We eat because we have decided not to feel and not to deal.