Why your husband drives you to eat.
1:30 Is your husband your biggest trigger?
2:09Does he drive you to eat?
4:20 They know our triggers
5:03 No one gets under our skin like our spouses.
5:21 We feel most vulnerable
6:08 Anyone can drive us to eat
6:55 They can be the most inflexible
7:45 How I cope
8:37 Not living in blame mode
9:53 Writing reveals what is hidden
11:20 The truth of the situation
11:47 We attach our well being to how they behave
13:07 It's the best lesson in letting go, surrender, live and let live, minding your own business.
14:20 A relationship can't fix you, its not their jot to make you feel ok
16:20 Selfish desires, and addressing your own fears
17:20 you can't change another person
18:00 Surrendering your agenda
18:30 We always end up hating the qualities we loved.
19:00 Roy: speaks his mind, doesn't care what people think.
24:20 Let go of the agenda and have unconditional love
25:50 No one can drive us to eat. We eat because we have decided not to feel and not to deal.