**Does a Poor Money Mindset Restrict Your Happiness?**
For many men I speak to, there's an underlying condition affecting their happiness and fulfillment: a money mindset. This mindset often limits happiness to the salary earned, the money a business makes, or the amount in savings.
This restriction could stem from a need for security or an ego-driven belief that happiness is undeserved without sufficient financial achievement. Overcoming this barrier is crucial for finding true happiness.
Personally, I've struggled with this issue, especially after nearly losing my house when I started my business. I was barely making mortgage payments for the first six months, which put me in survival mode and stripped away my sense of happiness and fulfillment. This situation caused a minor trauma, making me feel that financial security was essential for happiness. If I wasn't financially secure, I wouldn't allow myself to be happy.
I'm working hard to overcome this belief system. I've recognized scenarios that bring immense happiness and fulfillment, regardless of financial circumstances:
1. **Jiu-Jitsu Sessions:** Being surrounded by other men and women who push me hard, engaging in banter and conversation, makes me feel part of something special, regardless of my financial situation.
2. **Simple Family Moments:** Sitting in the garden, having a glass of wine or a beer with my wife while the kids play, brings immense joy and upliftment. The simplicity of the environment and the presence of loved ones create happiness.
These scenarios stand out because of the environment and the people around me. The same applies to:
- Mentor days with clients
- Going out with friends
- Enjoying solo walks
For so long, I didn't embrace these moments due to my restrictive money mindset. I know others face the same struggle. The first step is becoming aware of the conditions you're placing on your happiness.
Money is essential for living, but should we wait a lifetime to feel financially secure before allowing ourselves to be happy?
Maybe you are already financially secure, but when does enough become enough? What does that figure look like before you allow yourself to be happy
Reflect on this, and consider what truly brings you joy beyond financial constraints. What do you think?
