In this episode I open up about something I have avoided for years. I share the real story behind why I decided to go to therapy, what finally pushed me through the door and why the first session hit me harder than I expected. For a long time I convinced myself that I could handle everything alone. I believed that because I coached men, mentored men and helped men navigate their own chaos, I should be able to handle mine. But life does not work that way. Pressure builds. Old beliefs surface. Unresolved pain follows you into adulthood until you finally stop running and face it.
This conversation is about honesty, self leadership and the courage it takes to deal with the emotional weight you have carried for years. It is about recognising when strength is actually silence and when true strength is choosing to get help. I also share what is coming next for the podcast, including a powerful interview with my son where he talks openly about mental health, identity and growing up in a world full of pressure.
In this episode, I cover:
• Why I resisted therapy for so long and the beliefs that kept me stuck
• What finally made me walk into the room and ask for help
• The biggest revelation from the first session and how it reshaped my understanding of myself
• Why men avoid emotional work and how it shows up as anxiety, overthinking and burnout
• How therapy fits into self leadership and why it strengthens your mission rather than weakens it
• What to expect in the upcoming interviews and why these conversations matter for every man on a mission
If you are carrying more than you admit, if you have moments where you just want to know everything will be okay, or if you feel like you have no space to talk, this episode will speak directly to you.
It is time to lead yourself with honesty, not avoidance.
It is time to do the work that actually moves you forward.
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