[Trigger warning] This episode of Flying Solo discusses depression and suicidal ideation. Listener discretion is advised.
On this episode of Flying Solo, host Cec Busby dives deep into a topic that too often remains in the shadows: men’s mental health. With Are You OK? Day around the corner and financial, emotional, and social pressures weighing heavily on solo business owners, now is the time for an honest conversation.
Cec is joined by John Broadbent—men's mental health advocate, business owner, coach, and author of Man Unplugged—to share his personal journey from emotional shutdown and loss to self-discovery and healing.
Together, they explore why men remain overrepresented in suicide statistics, the shifting cultural expectations around masculinity, and why sharing our stories and showing vulnerability is so critical.
Whether you're running your own business or simply looking to better understand the men in your life, this episode is packed with heartfelt insights and hope for change.
Key topics
1. Men’s Mental Health: The Crisis, Causes, and Stigma
High rates of suicide among Australian men; ongoing stigma around seeking help
Traditional expectations of masculinity (provider, protector, stoic) vs. shifting cultural norms
The impact of isolation, low self-worth, and reluctance to discuss feelings
2. John Broadbent’s Personal and Professional Journey
Experiencing emotional awakening, loss, and rebuilding after personal and business setbacks
Finding healing through workshops, mentorship, and self-exploration
Writing "Man Unplugged" and evolving as a leader and advocate in men’s personal development
3. Breaking Through: Emotional Literacy and Honest Conversation
The importance of vulnerability, open communication, and emotional skills for men
Practical steps: Level 1-3 conversations for deepening relationships
Teaching emotional literacy to boys and supporting men in expressing emotions beyond anger
4. Solutions, Support, and Hope for the Future
The value of safe spaces, group work, and community support for men
Shifting the narrative: inclusive dialogue for lasting cultural change
Hope found in younger generations and in men opening up when given the opportunity
Timestamped overview
00:00 Rethinking Men's Mental Health
05:16 Epiphany Through Reading Journey
09:17 "Reflecting on My Ancestral Timeline"
11:21 Embracing Change and Growth
13:09 "Man Unplugged: Understanding Midlife Transitions"
19:13 Deepening Conversations for Genuine Connection
20:04 "Importance of Deep Conversations"
23:20 Encouraging Emotional Awareness in Men
28:38 "Emotional Availability in Relationships"
32:03 Shame, Violence, and Domestic Abuse
36:11 Men's Retreats Foster Emotional Growth
37:56 Support Resources and John’s Story
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