We get it.... you love them but you also love your alone time. She's messy, you're neat & you're fighting over ridiculous stuff. You are 100% committed to your relationship but also value autonomy. Carrie & Mr Big did it.... & now countless couples are jumping on the LAT trend. One love- two residences (usually a main & a satellite apartment or similar) & an agreement to spend a portion of the week apart & languishing in the "me time". The couples that have gone against the societal grain love it- & in a lot of cases believe their relationship or marriage is all the better for it. If your budget (& in some cases your ego & fear of judgement) allows for it..... Is Living Apart Together right for you? Our Sex & Relationships therapist Gabrielle Lawrie dives into the pros & cons of the relationship trend thats challenging the norms.