Curt and Katie talk about the nuance of treating therapists in therapy. We look at the unique dynamics in the therapeutic relationship as well as common traps to avoid.
It’s time to reimagine therapy and what it means to be a therapist. To support you as a whole person and a therapist, your hosts, Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy talk about how to approach the role of therapist in the modern age.
In this episode we talk about:
The lack of research or guidance on how to treat therapists in therapy
How different are therapists as therapy clients
What it is like to have a therapist for a therapy client
What to assess for with therapists
The importance of looking at what the presenting problem is
The expectation that therapists would be different that other clients
The therapeutic alliance and dual relationship conversations
The dynamic of making assumptions about therapists as clients
The theme of competition between client and therapist
Therapists overidentifying with therapist clients and making inaccurate assumptions
A different type of presenting problem and length of treatment
Common coping strategies (i.e., rationalization, focusing on cognition, non-judgmental, disconnect from feelings) that need to be overcome more with therapist clients
Clarifying the role and rules in the room, so we can take off the armor
Avoiding the temptation of staying in intellect and insight
Pushing for some comparison to other clients – reassurance, validation, vulnerability, trying to please or take care of the therapist
The importance of the therapist holding the container, so the therapist-client can do their work
How to navigate the differences between being a therapist and a supervisor or a manager
How therapists are like other clients, but totally different
Resources mentioned:
We’ve pulled together resources mentioned in this episode and put together some handy-dandy links.
Therapy Reimagined 2020 Call for Speakers
Relevant Episodes:
Therapists in Therapy
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Voice Over by DW McCann https://www.facebook.com/McCannDW/
Music by Crystal Grooms Mangano http://www.crystalmangano.com/
