Therapists Struggling with Darkness
Curt and Katie chat about how therapists are struggling during the pandemic. We looked at how client material impacts therapists. We also explored unique risk factors and protective factors. We talked about the stigma for therapists to admit that something is not okay as well as the tendency to move that conversation out of the public space (just go to therapy). We have some ideas about how we can better take care of ourselves and each other.
It’s time to reimagine therapy and what it means to be a therapist. To support you as a whole person and a therapist, your hosts, Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy talk about how to approach the role of therapist in the modern age.
In this episode we talk about:
How we are struggling during the pandemic
Sitting with client’s darkness and how that impacts therapists even before the pandemic
The impact client material can have on therapists
The stigma around therapists having mental health concerns
Anxiety contagion, energy drain of working with depression
Impacts on libido, mood, suicidality
Unique risk factors for therapists
Risk factors for suicidality
The heaviness and suicidality that can enter thought processes
The shame and the simplification when therapy is the only suggestion
“We deal with some heavy shit.”
Taking the conversation about therapists struggles out of the social space (“go to therapy”)
The lack of research about therapists as a workforce, the client impact on therapist, or therapists as clients
Therapists as human beings in both private and public ways
The feeling of being stuck and not being able to talk about it when you’re a therapist
How legal and ethical concerns play a part
Having a job, having people around you can be protective factors
Isolation and lack of social support
Boundary issues, vagueness to keep others at bay
How therapists support each other (and the importance of social support)
The danger of feeling trapped, especially if you’re isolated
Practices to incorporate to reinforce resilience
How we consume information and how the people around you are perceiving the news can impact you
Self-assessment of risk factors, identification of protective factors
What actually helps when someone is struggling
The group responsibility as well as our individual responsibilities
How to manage community care without overburdening yourself
The importance of assessing capacity to support and give to our colleagues and friends
Creating reinforcements and structure for regular support
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Relevant Episodes:
Quarantine Self-Care for Therapists
Therapist Suicide
Suicidal Therapists
Therapists in Therapy
Toxic Work Environments
The Mental Load of Therapists
Structuring Self-Care
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