At 52, John realizes how often we trade our truth for “membership” - relationships, status, the idea of success - and quietly disappear. From a house fire to shaving his head, he reframes love, loss, and identity, arguing that real growth demands new lenses, not old fantasies.
What You’ll Learn:
Why exchanging your truth for acceptance makes you lukewarm
“Corrective love” vs replaying the past’s highlight reel
How healthy love both confronts and delights
Impermanence as a doorway to gratitude (everything can vanish)
Reinvention at any age: new lenses → new life
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