In this episode Ariel addresses boundaries, something essential to our health but something we’re often unaware of or don’t enforce in a meaningful way.
This is a replay of an interview where Ariel was interviewed with "Bright and Early Seattle" host Michelle Woodward about different aspects of boundaries: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. They talk about boundary violations, how to deal with professional venters and releasing romantic relationships.
If you want courses on how to address these issues, go to www.arielhubbard.com and reach out to Ariel.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The energetic disengagement of people in love relationships comes up all the time in my practice with my students. It’s really challenging for people to get healthy relationship closure. When the time comes to disengage, the energetic cords that connect heart, mind, chakras and sexual organs need to release these cords. Cutting cords is not a healthy practice, it’s like cutting your arm or leg. I can teach you how to disengage the chords so they’re not so painful.
If you don’t want to be attracting the same type of person every time you need to look at your relationship with yourself: What do you think you deserve, what do you think you can have, what do/don’t you find acceptable. All boundary issues come from your relationship with yourself and your parents, sometimes your love relationships will come from one or both of your parents. Once you clean that up you will attract a new kind of partner.
Misery loves company. All over the world it’s considered polite to commiserate with someone and impolite to shut them down. If you take my advice, people might think that you’re rude and you going to have to be OK with that! You can do it in tactful or direct ways, but use common sense to work out the appropriate approach. This won’t work with family members who won’t change--this is for friends: You can ether give them four minutes to vent then do energy work to clean your energy space; or put a Violet Flame around you and then say “You didn’t ask me if I was willing to hear this. I don’t want to be rude, but unless you’re willing to deal with this situation constructively, I don’t want to hear you complain. This is not my job.”
When you’re interacting with people you have to be aware of their personal space, when people want to be touched and when they don’t, or when they want people near them or not. Talking over someone’s political or religious views is a conceptual boundary violation, and even an eyeroll is the same. It makes you less comfortable to share things with that person.
BEST MOMENTS
"Heartbreak is the pain felt by the tearing of the energetic chords, they’re being injured."
"If someone says, 'I’m leaving you,' that’s a huge boundary violation. It’s very disrespectful."
"Try to redirect venters onto a more proactive path. Don’t let them put their negativity in your space and make you accountable for their mess."
"If you’re dating, or in business with someone and they disengage you can feel saddened by that, that’s an emotional boundary violation."
ABOUT THE HOST
Ariel is a Licensed Massage Therapist, Registered Clinical Hypnotherapist, Reiki Master, Empath and Psychic who has been involved in holistic healing since 1988. She is also an educator, speaker, author and mentor for empaths, spiritual seekers and medical professionals. To reach Ariel, go to www.arielhubbard.com, where you will be able to contact her directly. Please let her know you heard her on the podcast and the assistance you need or question you have.
Link to pre-order The Empowered Woman's Guide to Online Dating: https://eworder.replynow.ontraport.net/
Website: www.arielhubbard.com
Online Courses: http://hubbardeducationgroup.myclick4course.com
Podcast: Woman Power Zone on all major platforms
LinkedIn: @arielhubbard
IG: @arielhubbard
Facebook: @HubbardEducationGroup
YT: @arielhubbard11
CH: @arielhubbard
Pinterest: https://pin.it/6Z6RozS
