On this episode of the World Game-Changers podcast, Paul is joined by returning guest host, Rebecca Wheele, who talks to Paul about the LEG (Life Enhancing Goal) that she directs in the World Game-Changers Organisation: Awareness Raising And Mindful Communication.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
How can you plan a journey from anywhere to somewhere else without knowing where you are, which way you’re facing. It’s a great metaphor for life, even making a cup of tea.
Rather than just giving instructions there’s this empathy that takes it to another level. We need to be mindful of how we communicate, the tonality, words being about 7% of communication, 38% is tonality and the remaining 55% is made up of physiology. All that comes into play when we’re talking about mindful communication.
This LEG is one of 10 that has been set up because it’s so powerful. However, there’s something that overrides it all: not being attached to the outcome. We can have that intention, create that strategy, plot that journey, but things happen that we’ve not planned for. It’s crucial not to get attached to the outcome. The vast majority of us humans want to control the situation and we create a whole story about how the outcome will be.
We can find it painful to be in a comfort zone of self-protection around our identity, our expectations, our ego, etc. Then to actually face the reality when you start to peel back the layers that I’m actually not that personality, I’m not that script. That is the epitome of awareness raising, then when we go on that journey of self-enquiry, self-discovery it’s not being attached to the outcome.
BEST MOMENTS‘Awareness is the starting point for all that we do in life.’‘Seek first to understand and then be understood.’‘Let life happen through you, not to you.’‘Keep on the move. Motion creates emotion.’
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272
Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679
Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679
Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon)
World Game-Changers Group
ABOUT THE GUESTRebecca is an artist and designer based in the South of England. She graduated from Kingston University in London 2013 with a degree in Illustration and Animation. After a shift in direction and new challenge working as a lifeguard and in management in the leisure industry, she went travelling around the world through South East Asia, Australia and New Zealand. She returned to the UK, to begin a journey working commercially in art and design.Rebecca works together with people to create logos, help with branding, design or re-vamp websites and generally loves to get involved with creative projects. She works across all industries and loves listening to people and understanding what their business is about, why they do what they do and translating this into a form of visual communication. Rebecca is a seeker of the spiritual and inspired by the power and beauty in nature; from colour, form and pattern, to how we can look to nature as a guide and teacher in life.www.rebeccawheele.com
ABOUT THE HOSTPaul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:Developing World Game-Changers…He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference. This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring. He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.
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