It’s okay to let go of always and never.
Not much in life is that consistent. Sometimes I think our desire to have calm, predictable days and weeks leads us to fight against the always things that don’t show up or to not acknowledge the never things that do.
Hope Beyond "Always" and "Never"
In a world of uncertainty, we cling to absolutes. "This always happens" or "that never works out." These rigid beliefs offer the illusion of control but often leave us frustrated when reality refuses to conform.
Hope operates differently. It doesn't demand guarantees or perfect patterns. Instead, it thrives in the spaces between absolutes—finding possibility where certainty fails.
When we embrace hope, we release ourselves from the tyranny of "always" and "never." We understand that today's failure doesn't predict tomorrow's outcome.
Hope whispers: "Things change. Patterns break. Exceptions exist."
This isn't blind optimism but a clear-eyed acknowledgment that life's complexity defies absolute rules. The friend who "always" cancels might surprise you. The promotion that "never" comes could be around the corner.
By trading rigid certainties for hopeful possibilities, we find freedom. We respond to life's unpredictability not with frustration but with curiosity. We remain open to the exceptions that break every rule.
In the end, hope doesn't eliminate disappointment—it simply places it within a larger story that hasn't finished unfolding. And in that unfinished space, we find the courage to try again.
Always and never are two words you should always remember never to use. Wendell Johnson
Here’s to letting hope fill in when things aren’t certain, leaving room for what’s truly possible.
