Is this the year that you’re finally going to figure out who you want to be? When it feels like our lives are not making the true impact we desire, know that you are not alone - you might just need a little push and a mutually beneficial support system. In this episode, Jerome and Matt dive deep into the capacity/contribution and character identification quadrants that can help individuals assess their relationships and pinpoint their attitudes in situations in life. This conversation is essential for anyone looking to create meaningful change in their lives by being honest with themselves and reaching out for support. Take advantage of this inspiring conversation about taking off masks to reach our highest potential!
[00:01 - 15:58] Success without Fulfillment is the Ultimate Failure
Many people think they have hit self-actualization…but did they?
Freedom is not the ultimate goal - understand that there is more
Jerome explains the high/low capacity and contribution quadrant
[15:59 - 27:42] Beware of Teaching People to be Helpless
Think back at yourself on where your position is in the quadrant
The downfall of high achievers - the pride in not asking for help
Jerome discusses the character identification matrix
[27:43 - 39:35] There Are Times You’re Going to Be the Villian Too
Take off the mask and be unapologetically yourself
Not knowing where to go can make you may end up somewhere you don't like
Let go of old paradigms to allow for a new experience of growth
[39:36 - 49:08] Knowing When You Need a Mentor
Jerome’s questions for you -
Are you madly in love with who you are and what you do?
Are your closest relationships mutually beneficial?
Are you passionate about the work and feel like you’re solving a problem that is worthwhile?
When you think about your health, are you proud of where you are?
Is your financial position one of your strengths?
Do you feel like your life has made the true impact you desire?
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[47:09 - 50:01] Closing Segment
Is this the year I will finally figure out who I want to be?
Connect with Matt!
Closing words
Tweetable Quotes:
“Think about that for a second. How many times has somebody offered to help you, and you say, ‘Oh no, no thanks,’ and you knew that they could actually help… How much further would you be? I personally believe it’s just your ego in the way.” - Jerome Myers
“There are times you're gonna be the villain. There's a time you're gonna be the victim. There's gonna be a time that you're gonna be the hero. And you need to be able to identify when you're in those specific roles because then you can make adjustments. If you don't know where you are, you're never gonna figure out where you're gonna go.” - Matt Halloran
Connect with Matt!
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthalloranpm/
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