In this premiere episode of Hey Best Fren, Vernika and Monique reflect on their two-decade-long friendship, from their high school meeting to navigating life's highs and lows side by side.
They dive into the power of open communication, the importance of steering away from jealousy, and celebrating one another’s achievements. The bestie duo also emphasizes how their contrasting personalities and steadfast support for each other have solidified their bond through the years, even during times of distance and major life transitions.
Tune in as Vernika and Monique share their friendship journey and inspire others to nurture meaningful connections like the one they’ve built.
KEY POINTS
- 21 years together: How our friendship started
-The pivotal role of open communication and boundaries
- No hate? Avoiding jealousy, envy, and competition
- The importance of a supportive, non-judgmental bestie
- On balancing friendship with different personalities
- Stronger bond and connection, no matter the location
- On navigating life’s challenges and future plans
- The value of unconditional acceptance in friendship
- The role of self-confidence and mutual support
QUOTES
"It's just unmatched. You can get the nicest clothes. You can get the more jewelry, whatever it is, you never made me feel less than or you never showed any type of like – oh, you beneath me."
“Friendship is like a marriage, and that's why I think a lot of people fall out of friendship, because they don't realize that you have to work it.”
“It's just like having someone to be there for you, not just in your happy moments, just in your down moments, to see where you have come from, to see the struggle, to the goodness in me, and you know, just everything surrounded about me."
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