You’ve booked your flight, made a hotel reservation, and you’re just about packed for the big trip—and then it happens. That big blow up you’ve avoided this far finally comes to a head and suddenly you find yourself happy to leave your sweetie behind.
Today on Sex, Love, and Elephants I’m talking all about those big fights we have with our partner right before we leave to go on a trip.
I’m teaching you why our predictable patterns are the result of our whole life’s experiences which can trigger us emotionally even when we’re not expecting it. I’m also confessing my own experience picking fights with my sweetie, the subconscious reason these fights happen, and how to deal with it.
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
Even my hubby and I used to fall in to the “fight before the flight” pattern (03:16)
When we become emotionally flooded, we lose our rationality (08:47)
We’re in training—to be a better partner and a better person (10:05)
When we have an argument with our beloved we're often arguing about old wounds (13:12)
Sometimes you pick a fight because it's easier to leave when you're mad at each other (18:59)
Today’s LoveByte (24:06)
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