Do you know the saddest phrase in the English language? "Too late."
I speak with so many couples who are splitting up because, “The passion is gone,” “We just drifted apart… somehow,” “I love them but I’m not in love with them,” “We never make love,” or, “It’s just too late.” But here’s the thing: it’s not too late, and there are still many things you can do to recapture that spark.
For the past three weeks, I’ve invited you to join me for a series of chats, culminating today, in order to help you recharge, reinvigorate, and reboot the passion that’s been missing in your relationship. As long as you are willing to TAKE ACTION and implement the daily challenges, you can cultivate passion. Is your relationship worth 5 minutes a day? You bet it is.
Today, I’m covering Tantalize, the final of the four steps to reboot your relationship in five minutes a day. According to the statistics, most couple’s sex lives are non existent or lousy. This Valentine’s Day, let’s change the trend of most long-term relationships and explore tantalizing meals, more eroticism, more imagination, step the heck up, and do something a little sexier than what we’re used to.
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
The greatest drop in marital satisfaction tends to come after the birth of the first child but the beautiful journey of parenthood doesn't have to take away from the connection between the two of you (06:04)
Tantalize is the ability to promise pleasure to your partner in a slow way that is intriguing and enticing (13:11)
An exercise to practice tantalizing your partner involving a simple hand or foot rub (14:09)
The idea of practicing erotic touch is to tantalizee—to build up connection. Whether you take that into making love or not is not actually the point (17:00)
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by these assignments, don’t be. This reboot is meant to refocus us to make love intentional, so start where you’re comfortable (20:03)
Today’s LoveByte (24:41)
Q&A:
What’s a fun way to get my partner in the mood? Send your honey sexy texts or leave them a sensual note on the mirror while they shower to get them excited for later.
Is it okay that sometimes my partner and I would rather cuddle than have sex? Intimacy and connection does not have to equal intercourse. Sometimes the best way to connect is through erotic touch without it leading to sex.
How can I make Valentine’s Day special for my spouse? Try a sensual massage, sending a sexy, teasing text, or kissing them deeply and passionately to ignite their desire.
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