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As a high achiever, I have always had this blueprint or set of checkboxes that I needed to hit or “check off” in my life and career. Can you relate

Here are some examples of the checkboxes I’m talking about.

• Get a degree.

• Get my first job.

• Advance in my next job.

• Advance some more.

• Get a management job.

• Get a bigger management job.

• Get married.

• Have children.

• Have scheduled birthday parties for my kids every few years.

• Schedule play dates for my kids, including swim lessons and sports.

• Be the family’s event planner and general touchstone for everything.

• And the list goes on.

In this episode, we explore where these checkboxes came from and what we can do about them to allow ourselves some much-needed rest. If we give ourselves a break from checking these boxes, we will be better for it.

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Madeleine Albright quote: https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2013/03/madeleine-albright-women-have-it-all.html

Arianna Huffington quote: http://www.morefamousquotes.com/topics/quotes-about-stress-and-burnout/

Burnout episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/back-from-burnout/id1547856593?i=1000508580387

Perfectionism episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindset-matters-overcoming-perfectionism/id1547856593?i=1000524057557