Many people try to achieve some perfect level of "balance" in their responsibilities. Be it work, school, wife, kids, fitness, etc... We always have to juggle responsibilities and perfect "balance" is a pipe dream. A far more achievable goal is rhythm. Establishing a routine, communicating effectively, and honoring your word goes a long way to quell the frustration and anger typically present when couples try and fail to create what they see as "balance".
