This week, Jairus Matthew Copeland reframes waiting not as stagnation or failure, but as an essential, life-giving process of growth. Drawing from personal milestones—impending parenthood, a year of reflection, and even an unexpectedly hollow fantasy football win—Copeland explores the pressure to constantly achieve “more” and the emptiness that can follow unchecked striving. He argues that what we often mistake for delay is actually preparation: a season for building internal margin, discipline, and capacity so that future success doesn’t bankrupt us emotionally or spiritually. Waiting, Copeland insists, isn’t dying—it’s staying alive long enough to become someone who can truly sustain the life they want
