Sometimes we expect others to know exactly what we want, or need, even when we say little or nothing at all. Perhaps unkind remarks by others keep us from being open and honest--we’re afraid of being hurt or embarrassed. It’s very important that family members say only kind, supportive things when someone is sharing their feelings. We should never laugh, or criticize in any way.
When we can say what we really think to supportive family members, good things usually happen:
∙ We know our family cares about us.
∙ We believe our opinions and concerns are important.
∙ Problems are prevented because they are discussed in advance.
∙ Problems are solved more easily because several people help find solutions.
∙ Our family is closer and stronger because we help one another.
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