When we speak negatively it focuses our attention on what is wrong with our world and our circumstances. It doesn’t help improve things, it makes our life worse.
An unkind remark to another person can range from seemingly harmless to truly hurtful. The truth is, however, whether we’re being simply sarcastic or being cruel, the effects are similar. Both types of remarks leave the giver and the receiver feeling negative and critical. The reverse is also true. When we speak kindly of others it focuses our attention on their goodness. When we speak kindly of our circumstances it turns our thoughts toward gratitude for what we have.
Discussion for Family from Short Story:
1. Why do you think the man in the story gave his shoes to the little girl?
2. Do we sometimes think kind thoughts, but we’re too afraid to say them? What are we afraid of?
Assignment:
1. With everyone participating, name five kind things you can say to make someone happy. (Example: “Thank you,” “I like the way you look today,” “You’re a good friend,” “I love you,” “You did a great job!”)
2. Make a special effort to use kind words in your home.
3. All family members give one compliment each day for a week.
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