Do you work too much and feel guilty about taking time for yourself? Do you find yourself overthinking things and having a hard time asserting your boundaries? Learn how to work through anxiety and discover what the root of it is for you.
Tati helps high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety feel more calm, present, and confident so they can finally stop overthinking everything and live a more balanced life. She has had over 10 years of experience in the field of mental health & self-improvement.
Quotes to remember:
“It got to the point where it felt like I couldn’t handle it anymore--and that’s when I realized I shouldn’t be reacting this way to something so small.”
“It’s not a linear journey.”
“You don’t need to be hard on yourself to be ambitious.”
“When you’re overthinking things, in some way you feel like you have control.”
Takeaways:
- People with high-functioning anxiety appear calm and confident on the outside, but are struggling on the inside
- You may not know that you have anxiety because you believe that this is what it takes to be successful
- The first step is becoming aware of your negative thoughts and when they come up
- Speak with yourself like you might speak with a friend
- We mistakenly believe that we must be hard on ourselves in order to get things done
- Self-compassion can aid in ambition
- We are taught via punishment growing up--but it’s ineffective at building sustainable habits for ourselves
- Anxiety is rooted in shame and being uncomfortable with oneself
- Express your shame and fear, if even in a journal
- When you notice the thinking, you give yourself the choice
- Anxiety often leads to either avoidance or overworking
- Focus on energy management rather than time management
- Sometimes people become comfortable in their discomfort
What you’ll learn:
- How core beliefs may be holding us back
- What Tati implemented in her life once she realized that anxiety was running her life
- Steps to accepting yourself
- What to do when you find yourself overthinking
- Preventing burnout by keeping a pulse on your health
- How to address guilt when saying no, especially in work
- How to be more productive in less time
- Why some people fail to change
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