Fantasies, fleshlights, courtesans, and surprisingly sexy minister training—BJ shares how he’s satisfying his curiosities and connecting enthusiastically with partners.
00:00 Embracing his shame-free 60s and recalling early experiences
07:01 Encyclopedia sex ed and filling in the gaps with imagination
12:24 Teaching his gym teacher about sex
19:14 Discovering self pleasure in a dark closet
24:03 Heavy petting and a cycle of guilt in college
27:07 Becoming a minister, explicit films in seminary, and sexuality in the old testament
34:31 Connecting with his wife through sensual massages and fantasy suite experiences
37:22 Playing with fleshlights, prostates, and lube
42:33 Satisfying his legal brothel curiosity
46:01 More love, less war, and pumping gasoline as a turn-on
56:07 Sex work fantasies and craving clothing optional spaces
📈STATS | 60s heterosexual cis male, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, divorced, sexologist, retired pastor, musician, based in American rural midwest, into: connected touch, eye contact, nipple play, receiving blowjobs, painting his toenails
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